Spender is only sort of a money book. It's honestly more of a life book about creating what you want for your life with your money, not just settling for the life you're currently affording.
The book includes the steps this corporate-leaver followed to finally trust myself with money and get out of debt. Readers say it's like talking money talk on the couch with a friend. This book makes you think about the life you want to afford, and prepares you to do more about your dreams.

Below are just a few of the formal conversations I've had about trusting yourself with money and your life.
This book of vignettes is about taking flying leaps out of comfort into uncertainty. And the sometimes-long, super-worthwhile messy middle of doing what's brave for your dreams. This book is for you if you're restless in a safe life, or your dreams are already in-flight and you're waiting to see hoped-for results.
This isn't a hustle-hard, sleep-when-you're-dead approach to dreams. If anything, it's about slowing down, opting out of status quo, and building your trust as you do big stuff about your dreams.

Coming Fall 2026. If you loved the Field Notes section in Dear Fellow Dreamer, you'll love this collection of stories and observations. Two years of post-corporate traveling through literal and figurative uncertainty and conversations with hundreds of strangers changes a person, and I can't wait to introduce you to the temperatures, laundromats, animals, places and people who changed my life.
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